I have the
2Sum from Sig in 9mm, I like it, Many will complain about the long trigger pull on the DAO, But it hasn't bothered me.
I have seen a .45 compact at Impact for under $400
The P250 is nothing to the P229 or other metal framed Sig's, However I have only owned Polymer framed Sig's and I love it, I'm somewhat of a cheap S.O.B. and like good prices on great items, That is one reason I bought a P250
Good luck
Cripes... I keep editing...
Your best be is to handle to pistols to see what fits your hand.