Greg, I didn't think anyone said a dana 60 is the only answer. What i say at least is that if he thinks his 4wheeling is going to evolve into the hard core, then why not start with a D60 right from the start? It means saving $ in the long run. So ya don't buy a D44, break it, get parts, break it some more, change ball joints, buy alloy stuff, etc etc.
If a stock D60 costs, say $1100, then you got a D44 ready to go for less than that. Awesome I say to you. My HP D44, shortened to stock Waggy D44 length, long side, with 4.56 gears, lockright, flattop knuckles that had to be sourced (by me) drilled and machined, custom tie rod and drag link made, with labor (except that i installed the shafts, knuckles and steering myself) and i'm into it about $1800. With the alloy shafts and $$ U-joints that i bought recently, it adds quite a bit of cost.